Sanctuary New Zealand
End of Life Doula Support for you and your whānau
When someone you love is facing serious illness or the end of life, there can be a lot to navigate. Decisions to make, conversations to have, practical things to organise and emotions to hold.
As an End of Life Doula, I walk alongside you and your whānau, offering practical and emotional support, information, time and a calm presence before, during and after death.
I can help you understand your options, prepare for what lies ahead, have the conversations that matter and create space for the people and moments that are important to you.
You don't have to navigate this alone.
Kia hora te marino. Kia whakapapa pounamu te moana.
Hei huarahi mā tatou I te rangi nei. Aroha atu, aroha mai. Tātou i a tātou katoa.
May peace be widespread. May the sea glisten like greenstone, a pathway for all of us this day.
Let us show respect for each other, for one another. Bind us all together.
What is aN end of life doula?
An End of Life Doula is a trained, non-medical companion who provides emotional, practical, social, educational and spiritual support to people approaching the end of life and those important to them.
compassionate, practical and personalised end of life support.
Whakaahuru - To warm, cherish and comfort.
This sits at the heart of how I work.
My role is to bring warmth, calm, practical support and compassionate presence to people and whānau navigating the end of life.
Navigating your journey
I create a transparent and nurturing environment where both you and your whānau feel cherished and at ease.
My goal is to alleviate stress and pressure providing options and support. Together, we ensure compassionate support throughout this journey.
advocacy AND empowerment
Empowerment is central to my work collaborating closely with you to help you make informed decisions and advocating for your wishes, allowing you to navigate this sensitive time with clarity, autonomy and peace of mind.
HOw I CAN SUPPORT YOU
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Planning, preparing and understanding your options
There can be a lot to think about when facing a serious illness or approaching the end of life. I can help you make sense of what lies ahead, have important conversations, explore your options and put plans in place that reflect what matters most to you.
Some of the ways I can support you include:Planning & preparation
Advance care planning
Family dynamics
Tender conversations
Legacy & meaningful projects
Funeral & farewell planning -
Practical and emotional support as things change
Living with serious illness can bring uncertainty, difficult decisions and a lot for families to hold. I can provide a calm, steady presence alongside your existing healthcare team, helping with practical matters, communication, appointments and the changing needs of you and your whānau.
Some of the ways I can support you include:Emotional & practical support
Appointment preparation & attendance
Care navigation
Whānau support -
Creating space for connection, presence and what matters most
As death approaches, there can be a lot happening around you. I can help create a calm and supportive environment, whether that means planning a vigil, being present at the bedside, supporting whānau or simply making space for people to be together.
Some of the ways I can support you include:Vigil support
Bedside presence
Creating a peaceful environment -
Gentle guidance through what comes next
The time immediately after someone dies can be both deeply emotional and practically overwhelming. I can help you understand what needs to happen, explore options for caring for the person who has died, support you through the practicalities and create a farewell that feels meaningful and right for your family.
Some of the ways I can support you include:After-death care
Family-led care
Working alongside funeral directors & celebrants
Funeral & ceremony planning
Bereavement support